Variational (im)politeness

Mathew Gillings, Isolde van Dorst & Jonathan Culpeper
WU Vienna University of Economics and Business | University of Vienna | Lancaster University
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A recent interaction with an angry guy at a public swimming pool got me thinking and I realized that the vast majority of unpleasant interactions I’ve had in my life were with men. Why is that? Why are men so rude?

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