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Politeness in and across Historical Europe
Edited by Annick Paternoster, Gudrun Held and Dániel Z. Kádár
[Journal of Historical Pragmatics 24:1] 2023
► pp. 16–31

Cicero’s De Officiis, politeness and modern conduct manuals

| University of Otago

This paper considers the guidelines for polite conversation and appropriate comportment presented in Cicero’s philosophical treatise De Officiis (44 bce), examining them in the light of recent scholarship on modern conduct manuals (e.g., Terkourafi [2011], Alfonzetti [2016], Culpeper [2017] and Paternoster and Saltamacchia [2017]). In particular, it considers: (1) Cicero’s attempt to impose order on conversational practices; (2) his guidelines on rebuking others appropriately (a topic often omitted from modern manuals); (3) the ways in which his views on conversation coincide with modern theories of politeness; (4) his association of polite manners with moral behaviour and social class; and (5) the role of caricature in his depictions of inappropriate behaviour.

Keywords: Cicero, comportment, conduct manuals, conversation, Della Casa, De Officiis , manners, politeness, social class
Article outline
  • 1.Introduction
  • 2.Polite conversation
  • 3.Polite criticism
  • 4.Showing respect and affection in conversation
  • 5.Comportment and morality
  • 6.Conduct manuals and social caricature
  • 7.Conclusion
  • References
Published online: 7 March 2023
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