Most encounters between strangers in urban public spaces involve the ritual of civil inattention (Goffman 1963). Generalized diffusion of this ritual upholds the urban interaction order.
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stranger in urban public space gathered by the Researching Incivilities in Everyday Life (RIEL) Project, variations between
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move and subsequent verbal exchange. Analysis demonstrates the value of ritual framing for understanding interactional conflict
between strangers, and indicates that the broader concept of incivility can supplement and extend existing impoliteness research
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