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Pragmatics and Society
Vol. 15:2 (2024) ► pp.215–245

“I hope this is your last sorrow”

Condolence strategies in colloquial Persian

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The objective of the present study is to examine condolence strategies and the sociocultural norms underlying the realisation of the speech act of condolence in Persian. To achieve this, a three-layered data collection methodology including two focus group interviews (FGIs), field notes, and a discourse completion task (DCT) were used. FGIs and field notes were utilised to shed light on the cultural norms as well as any variables affecting the expressions of condolence. The DCT, on the other hand, was administered to explicate the form and frequency of condolence strategies in Persian. Results indicate that, influenced by six sociocultural variables, 20 distinct condolence strategies are used in Persian. Furthermore, findings show that, while these strategies are used with varying degrees of frequency in different situations, when expressing condolence, Persian speakers place high importance on empathising with the bereaved interlocutor.
Keywords: condolence, Persian, strategy, metapragmatics
Article outline
  • 1.Introduction
  • 2.Prior studies
  • 3.Method and data collection
    • 3.1FGIs
    • 3.2Field notes
    • 3.3The DCT
  • 4.Analytic framework
  • 5.Description and analysis
    • 5.1Findings of the FGIs
    • 5.2Findings of the field notes
    • 5.3Strategy form and function
      • 5.3.1The involvement component
      • 5.3.2Empathy component
      • 5.3.3Respect component
  • 6.Discussion of the findings
    • 6.1Addressee’s age
    • 6.2Interlocutors’ sex
    • 6.3Addressee’s status
    • 6.4Solidarity between the interlocutors
    • 6.5Age of the deceased
    • 6.6Cause of death
  • 7.Conclusions
  • Acknowledgements
  • Notes
  • References
Published online: 6 April 2023
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